Saturday, August 12, 2017
A Child's View
God is faithful and reliable. If we confess our sins, he forgives them and cleanses us from everything we've done wrong. 1 John 1:9
My friend's 6 year old son was devastated. Before bedtime, he began to tell him mom about bad things he had done, mistakes he had made and the mean things he had said. Through tears of shame, he asked his mom, "How could God love me? How could he forgive me?" My friend quickly assured him that there is nothing he could ever do that would make God not love him. With a kiss and a hug she put him to sleep.
Later, she shared with me her struggles about her conversation. She was heart-broken that he felt such grief and sadness. He was so distraught over such little things, like mean thoughts and watching big kid's shows, things that most of us wouldn't think twice about. At the same time, she didn't want to dismiss his concerns. As I listened to her story, I couldn't help but think of Jesus when he said, “We must become like a child to enter the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 18:3
This six year old knew that he had made mistakes and he wasn't perfect. None of us are perfect but once we get older we tend to rationalize our mistakes and compare our relatively minor imperfections with dysfunctional family members, our out of control friends or the really messed up people on reality tv shows. Compared to them- we aren’t that bad. We reach a point where we have to do something major like driving a car after having too much to drink, discovering an unplanned pregnancy, or running a red light and endangering someone's life - to admit to ourselves that we are sinners.
Romans 3:23 says "we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God." The Greek word translated "sin" in this verse means "missed the mark"; in other words, we make mistakes and we aren't perfect. Realizing that we make mistakes is the first step to realizing we need a Savior. If we were perfect, we could save ourselves. Since we aren't perfect, we need to ask God's forgiveness for all of our sins- the major ones that haunt us and the small ones like being mean or being caught in a lie.
I told my friend that her son should simply pray and ask Jesus to forgive his sins. The Bible says, “He is faithful and just to forgive all of our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9 Jesus can take away the awful feelings of guilt and shame. There is nothing that we have done, said or thought that He won’t forgive. Nothing. All we have to do is ask. He makes us pure and holy.
Talking with my friend reminded me of when I was five years old. At that very young age, I realized I was a sinner. I knew I had done bad things and so every night I prayed and asked God to forgive me. As I look back on my life I am so grateful that I realized that I wasn't perfect and and made mistakes when I was young. I learned that Jesus loved me not because of what I had done for him but because of what he had done for me. Realizing His love for me at such a young age has given me a lifetime of confidence in His love, grace and forgiveness.
If you have a young one in your life, don't miss out on the opportunity to introduce them to Jesus's amazing grace and love at an early age. Romans 8:38-39 promises us that nothing can separate us from the love of Jesus- Nothing. You can help them avoid so much grief and heartache if they learn they are always loved and there is nothing they can do to lose God's love.
How old were you when you realized that Jesus loved you in spite of all your sins and mistakes? How did that change your life?